If you loved
All About Love
bell hooks · Book · 2001
If All About Love challenged your understanding of intimacy, these selections will further dismantle your assumptions about connection and human behavior.
Films on the same thread

The Theory of Everything
James Marsh · Film · 2014
Explores: Love and adversity, Triumph over adversity, Scientific genius.
Just as All About Love redefines romance beyond societal scripts, this film presents a profound look at how love persists through the most challenging physical and existential adversity imaginable.

Amélie
Jean-Pierre Jeunet · Film · 2001
Explores: kindness, secret admirer, finding joy in the mundane.
Following the call in All About Love to practice love as an active verb, this story highlights how intentional acts of kindness can fundamentally transform both individual and community happiness.

Love Actually
Richard Curtis · Film · 2003
Explores: Love, Relationships, Christmas.
While All About Love critiques our narrow view of romance, this film explores the messy, interconnected nature of human relationships and the various ways people seek connection during the holidays.

Kill Bill: Vol. 1
Quentin Tarantino · Film · 2003
Explores: Revenge, Female Empowerment, Betrayal.
If you appreciated the fierce, confrontational spirit of All About Love, you will recognize that same intensity in this narrative of a woman reclaiming her power after profound betrayal.
Series on the same thread

Modern Love
John Carney · Series · 2019
Explores: love in the city, modern relationships, interconnected stories.
All About Love demands we look at intimacy with fresh eyes, and this anthology mirrors that commitment by exploring the complex, often non-traditional ways we navigate modern emotional landscapes.

The Summer I Turned Pretty
Jenny Han · Series · 2022
Explores: First Love, Summer Romance, Love Triangle.
This coming-of-age story echoes the themes in All About Love regarding the vulnerability of growth, as the protagonist learns to confront painful truths to achieve more authentic interpersonal connections.

All Watched Over by Machines of Loving Grace
Adam Curtis · Series · 2011
Explores: Technology and Society, Artificial Intelligence, Social Control.
Mirroring the cultural critique found in All About Love, this series challenges how we perceive our society, urging a deeper interrogation of the systems that influence our human experience.

Big Love
Will Scheffer · Series · 2006
Explores: Religious Fundamentalism, Modern Polygamy, Family Secrets.
Much like the analytical approach in All About Love, this drama examines the moral complexity of non-traditional family structures and the often difficult reality of maintaining integrity within them.
Podcasts on the same thread

Rise Together Podcast
Dave Hollis · Podcast · 2023
Explores: Radical candor, Vulnerability, Authentic connection.
This podcast serves as a direct extension of the philosophy in All About Love, emphasizing radical candor and the necessity of vulnerable communication for building truly healthy and authentic connections.

Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert · Podcast · 2026
Expanding on the emotional integrity discussed in All About Love, this resource provides the essential tools to identify toxic patterns and ensure that your relationships are rooted in genuine respect.
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Common questions
Is All About Love a romance novel?
No, All About Love is not a romance novel. bell hooks critiques the common view of love as romance and instead presents a proactive new ethic for individuals and society, challenging readers to define love as a verb rather than a noun.
What is the central argument in All About Love?
In All About Love, bell hooks argues that people should define love as a verb rather than a noun. She suggests that by acting on love, society can develop a proactive new ethic that replaces the conventional, limited focus on romantic relationships.
Is All About Love considered a scholarly work?
Yes, bell hooks is described as a renowned scholar and cultural critic. In All About Love, she applies her background as a feminist and critic to challenge societal perceptions of love, blending personal insights with cultural analysis to propose a transformative way of living.
How does bell hooks approach the concept of love in All About Love?
bell hooks approaches love in All About Love by moving away from the definition of love as a noun. She writes that individuals would love better if they used the word as a verb, encouraging a shift toward a proactive ethic within society.